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How to say "I love you"

Telling her "I love you" is an important step in building intimacy in a relationship. And there is no better time than valentines day to say "I love you" to the girl you love, because most of the girls have tendency to be very polite and feel special and romantic on Valentines day. Believe it or not, some girls feel guilty in their subconscious mind if no one asks her to be his valentine.  

1. Think about when and where you want to tell her. Is there a special place you want to be? A certain day? For example, you might want to tell her at the place you first met her, or on the two-month or nine-month anniversary of your first date. 
2. Set the mood and be romantic. Buy her flowers or a romantic gift. 
3. Look directly into her eyes, take her hand and tell her how positive you feel about her. Give her examples of things you really like about her. Be sincere. 
4. Tell her how you feel being with her, and how much you enjoy your time together. Be specific about what you value and appreciate about being with her. 
5. Follow these positive statements with telling her you love her in whatever way feels best for you. For example: "I feel I've come to love you," "I realize I love you," "I feel so much love for you," "I've fallen in love with you," or simply, "I love you." 
6. Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for her possible response if you are not sure whether she feels the same way about you. For example: If you are hoping she will say "I love you" in return, what if she doesn't? 
7. Decide if you are ready to be that vulnerable and if you could handle whatever she may say. 
8. Go for it if you feel ready to take the risk. Love is always risky. But remember? No risk - No return.
9. If you think that she's not ready, you should also be aware. You might be ready, but what about her? Talk more and get to understand her. Then you will know if she's ready. If you can do that, she's yours.
10. There may follow a (long) silence after saying "I love you" due to feeling uncomfortable. To avoid this, DON'T restart your meaningless chitchat about the taxes or something. It's easiest when you say it while you are making out/kissing/etc.
11. Please, don't tell her while you are drunk. It may be a moment she will remember forever. Make it meaningful.

And wish you the best of luck! Be confident and you will be successful!



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